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Winter Road Trip Surprises

It is not uncommon to find many people ready to head out of town this time of year.  They crave some blue skies and warm temperatures.  We’re no different.  We planned a weekend road trip to get out of town and to see My Other Girl.  We just got lucky on the blue skies…very, very lucky.  Driving through Oregon, across the ‘fat’ part of Idaho in February, should have included deep, deep snow…but as I mentioned, we were lucky and in for some lovely surprises.

We arrived in Pendleton, Oregon, too late for any stores to be open, so it was easy to stay on budget!  We window shopped antique stores, western wear and consignment stores, as we mentally planned a return trip someday.  The Prodigal Son Pub was a colorful eatery, with stray bits of art, tables in odd shapes and a play room for small children.febtrippc1

I am not sure I will ever understand life in Oregon, where ‘no shirts, no shoes, no service’, applies to all, but the staff.  Still, the flip-flop wearing waitress was pleasant and the food… simple and delicious.febtrippc2We had a full day’s drive, enjoying the views of potato fields, blue skies, a book on tape, nodding off (me) and being together…febtrippc4We arrived at our destination…My Other Girl and Number 5 Son’s newlywed apartment in Rexburg, Idaho.  As far as Married Student Housing goes…these two have it made.  Their 2 bedroom apartment is darling and all seems right in their world, but for Dad to see it for himself, well that is…even better.febtrippc3Thirty years ago (or so), when My Loving Spouse came from across ‘The Pond’ he spent 5 years living in Driggs, Idaho….just 30 minutes down the road.  We spent the day pursuing his old haunts, with the Grand Teton in the back ground….and his often heard mutterings,

“I just cannot believe that there isn’t 2 feet of snow here…in February!”febtrippc10We went to see the ‘House that Pat’ built.  Now, I know My Loving Spouse can build or fix anything, but still, I wasn’t prepared for this log home.  (Even though someone ‘ruined’ it by adding on to it, per Mr. Builder Himself).  febtrippc8“You built a log home?”

“Yes”

“WOW! Did you have one of those kits?  A prefab deal?”

“No.  This is a hand peeled log home.”

…and I appropriately said,

“WOW!” again, because I was amazed and surprised…and impressed.febtrippc9The next stop…’the restaurant that Pat’ built.  Although, now called ‘The Royal Wolf’, the original name ‘The British Rail’ is still etched into the door.2015-02-16 12.58.31My Loving Spouse told of installing the bar ‘rail’, a small stretch of real rail road rail, that took 10 men to move, the bar he found in an old barn and took hours of restoring and the beams installed and the fun that was had…and the pictures don’t do the place justice, but I couldn’t figure out how to ask all the customers to get out of my way, so I could take some proper photographs.febtrippc5As we headed back down the road, we got the best surprise of all…a couple of farmers out feeding their cattle…with a horse-drawn sleigh.febtrippc7They saw that we’d pulled over to take some pictures, so they did the ‘neighborly’ thing to do…the brought the team across the field and up close so we could get a great look at it.febtrippc5The ‘old boys’ said, that there had been a ‘team pulling’ event that day, and as their horses were all harnessed up they decided to use them to feed their cattle and when there is 2 feet of snow on the ground this is how they feed their cattle everyday.febtrippc6Getting out-of-town, seeing the kids, being together…traveling surprises…makes it…’even better’.

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The Power of the Ball

atticpicm2We don’t play the lottery….as my big brother Day-Fud says, “The lottery is just a tax for people who are bad at math.”  Apparently, the ‘Power Ball’ was up to a bazillion dollars.  My Loving Spouse bought two tickets.  One for me and one for him, although he said he wasn’t sure which one was mine.

…and I played the ‘game’…the game where you imagine what you’d do if you won…

and it was powerful, because I realized all the important things…

I would not want to live anywhere different…

I would not want a different home…

I would not quit my job…because I am making a difference with some of the kids…

…and realizing all of these blessings was Powerful…

…I would probably buy another tractor and of course…

…I’d buy more cows.

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Cow Disorder

My mother used to say of us, “We (She and I) did not get the nursing gene.”  True, true words….  Sure, I can slap on a bandage, hand out Tylenol and saltine crackers.  I know when cuts need stitches.  I am great at driving others to the emergency room and then look away during any and all treatment.  During my mother’s last stay in the hospital, her lungs had to be suctioned often.  All they had to do was turn the suction machine on, and I’d soon be retching and running from the room.  The nursing staff soon learned to warn me and invited me to leave the room prior to her daily procedure.

All this to say…I don’t really like nursing…I never thought about being a doctor…I don’t really like gross stuff.

So….

The other night at diner, I was asking Our Friend the Farmer how his calving was going.  He was telling us that he’d had a cow with a uterine prolapse.  In other words, she pushed her calf out and then kept pushing…until she’d pushed her uterus out as well.  He was explained how hard it was to push it back into her…they’d sort of washed ‘it’ off and pushed and pushed the uterus in all the while the poor old cow was still trying to push it back out.  Our Friend the Farmer said it was ‘not very nice’.  It was hard work and took a couple of hours…and all I could think of was….

I wish I could have been there to help…cowpc1
My Loving Spouse says I have O.C.D. – Obsessive Cow Disorder

…I don’t know…

I guess he might be right.

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Broody or Brooding

This morning My Loving Spouse opened the shade, looked out the window at fog, fog and more fog and sighed…

“English weather…dark, dank and dismal!”

Everything is gray.  There is only one thing not gray and that is the mud…mud, muck and mire and like the fog, there is plenty of it.

My Loving Spouse is brooding a bit about gray weather…it has gotten to him.  He hates this gray weather, but there was one bit of news, that I had that lifted his spirit.

“I think Crow is broody!” 

Crow (our odd-looking black chick) turned into a beautiful black hen.  She is the only hen who has ever acted completely hen-like and hopeful, that spring is coming…so it is time to ‘brood’ (sit on eggs…hatch chicks).  broodypcShe is sitting on a nest of eggs.  Actually, hens are not very smart, so My Loving Spouse actually moved her to a nest box that the chickens do not use, gave her some clean bedding and put all the eggs laid today under her.  When I checked on her, I put another laid egg under her as well.

“Will she notice that there are more eggs?” I asked.

“Chickens cannot count.”

really?!

So we have at least once hen with some mothering instinct and may have little chicks in 21 days…

As far as brooding about the weather…

remember the rainbow we also had this weekend…

captured while I was cow ‘watching’…I love seeing calves born…yes,

spring is coming…cowrainbowpc

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Picky Eaters

It seems that I have a farm filled with picky eaters.  The only exception, of course are our black labs who eat any and everything and are continually reprimanded for eating chicken droppings, is it any wonder My Loving Spouse does not like to be licked by those dogs.dogspc1The Grand Dogs are picky eaters (although they too like chicken droppings) and eat a special (not the kind on sale) kind of dog food.  They have to be fed separate from the black labs who inhale their food and would be happy to inhale the Grand Dogs food too.

The horses have been upgraded from hay-hay to alfalfa-hay.  Alfalfa has more protein in it and I’m guess it tastes better too as that is their preference.  Beau has been upgraded once more and is being fed beet pulp.  He did not winter well, unlike we humans who don’t winter ‘well’ and gain weight, Beau has lost too much weight and needs a supplement.  The beet pulp must be soaked first as it expands when wet and we don’t want it expanding in Beau’s gut.  We have a system to clean out the bucket we soak the beet pulp in.horsepc1
horsepc2Bob is also a picky eater.  He prefers his alfalfa with leaves on it.  Once he has eaten all the leafed alfalfa he starts informing us that he’d like some more.  He does not like to eat what we call the alfalfa ‘sticks’, preferring to share these with the horses.  He moos at us whenever he sees us and is just down to ‘sticks’.bobpc1-2015The barn cats have one job, which is to keep the rodent population down around here.  (They also seem to think their second job is to make sure my car has a large quantity of paw prints on it daily).  The Barn Cats have been doing a fairly good job of keeping the rodent situation fairly well in hand…until lately.  Now it could be the new Ginger cat, who has decided to call this place home…but someone…some CAT is not finishing their meals…twice this week they’ve left the head of something on the back mat for me to find.  Excuse me Barn Cats I do not do dead things…finish your own darn meal!catspc1

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Spirit Weak or Spirit Week

True confessions…I am easily sad these days.  I am working hard to remember that feeling sad is okay.  With My Girl on the other side of the world, my role in life is moving from mother to grandmother.  I am working hard to remember that feeling sad honors the love for the one that is ‘leaving’, growing, changing.  The sadness is mingled with delight as I am cleaning out her room (the squirrel’s nest)* and reorganizing it my way.  It is an odd collection of feelings…and my soul has felt tired…

I work at an elementary school with lots of little people.  It is spirit week.  A week for spirit and a bit of fun, but I did not really want to ‘play’…

Crazy Hair day…I’ll pass…except My Librarian was in the spirit and I had a realization…it is not all about me.   We work with kids and there may be one of them that needs to see my playful spirit…I needed to get it together.  Luckily, I did know exactly where my box of Halloween supplies were… Spirit week…I might have missed it.hairdaypcSome of the kids were funny…like the 5th grade boy with a diaper on his head…and some of them were sweet…like the 4th grade boy who spiked his hair using maple syrup!  They were all there with eyes wide open to see who was playing along…and I am glad I did.

Today is pajama day…  Cow jammies…check!

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*Cleaned out of the squirrel’s nest…

Inside 7 purses:

2 apples

1 banana

1 spoon

1 fork

1 diet coke

1 container of cooked soy beans

1 baggie of nuts

1 packet of granola

2 boxes of raisins

1 candy cane

candy wrappers

bobby pins

chap sticks

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Zoe Real Farm Dog Now

We have a hunch that Our Friend the Farmer’s cattle dog has been teasing our dog Zoe.  The Cattle Dog rides on the back of Our Friend the Farmer’s ‘bike’, when he is not herding cattle.  (Just for the record, let’s all remember that ‘bikes’ are tools not toys!)  It is not uncommon to see Our Friend the Farmer go zipping by our house on his bike with The Cattle Dog sitting smugly behind him.  I will admit, that although I do not speak dog, I am sure The Cattle Dog has been telling our lab Zoe, that she is not really a farm dog.  Something has gotten into her lately and we can only sum it up to…peer pressure.

Zoe insists on helping to feed the other animals and races me out to the barn to do so.  As soon as I turn the bike on…well, my Farm Dog is there…ready to roll…it is cattle feeding time.

Doing chores on the ‘bike’ is work, okay…fun work.  Doing chores on the ‘bike’ with my dog…well, that is…even better!farm dogpc1

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Little Bulls and Bullocks

My Sweet Neighbor Sue agreed that our little calf Bob was the cutest thing ever…that is until their calves were born.

They shared their well thought out breeding plan with us.  They were buying some steers to raise for meet.  When they were picking up the steers, a couple of heifers (girl cattle who have never calved) got into their trailer as well.  It was easier to buy the heifers than to try to get them out of the trailer, so they were now in the cattle breeding business.

What do you get when you breed a red heifer and a black heifer to a white and black bull?bullspc1The little black bull came from the red heifer…and the black heifer produced a little white bull that looks just like their daddy.  I still think he looks more like the sheep down the road!

I like my cattle black, so they match the mud and I also like my herd without horns.

bullspc2My Loving Spouse calls our calf, ‘Bob the Bashful Bullock’ (bullock is a steer in England).  Bob is a shy guy, not especially curious.  He’d never eat out of your hand and still likes to run and stand behind his Mama…unless he smells….bullspc3Then I must say, I’ve got him!bullpc5Yep, finger licking good!bullpc4
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Out of the Nest

My Girl is off to Hong Kong.  I’d like to tell you that all the preparations went smoothly and without hitches or glitches…but I’d be lying.  The final day of packing and preparing went exactly as the men in this house expected, which is why they were both gone!

To tell the truth, I was sort of surprised at what a nice, calm day we were having…we went out for French Fries, because that seemed a very American thing to do, enjoyed the blue skies and drove by Our Friend the Farmer’s cows to see if any of the girls were calving, (well, that part was my idea, but it was worth the ‘eye roll’ I got for it and a small smile).

Then all of a sudden the nest got ‘tight’… too small…and the Baby Bird was not preparing to fly in the manner this Mother Bird thought appropriate…but I could be wrong…after all down loading your music to your computer could be more important than activating your money card or weighing your bags or printing off your flight information or…and the anxiety was rising in us both…it was not our finest hour.

Number Two Son got home took one look at me and said,
“How about I open the wine?”

He is one of the smartest in the family.  Number Two then went off to find his sister and calm her down as well…reminding her that she and I have lived together for 21 years and we know how to ‘push each other’s buttons’….and that Mom might have a point about…some of it…

Just about the time I had the dinner ready…My Loving Spouse texted to say that he was 40 minutes away.  So much for the calm family dinner I’d planned before My Girl left.  He got home, we ate and she went out…  I confessed that I hate it when I get so upset at her…and then shed a tear or two as I got in touch with the real truth… I am scared…maybe not a LOT of scared but some scared…  My Girl is going far away to a country where she is not even allowed to say why she has come.  She is on a mission, but must say she is a ‘tourist’….and that is China.

Tired tears… My Loving Spouse did what any level headed person would do… he ran out and got me ice cream… and some chocolate.

laurapc2My Girl was born doing things differently…she could climb long before she could walk.  I could not keep her from climbing into this window when she was 1.  Eventually, the neighbors stopped ringing the door bell to say,

“Did you know that the baby was in the window?”

‘Ah, yes.’  I managed to keep her safe, while she dealt with the world in her own way…but it has been a challenge.

Today we drove her over the hill to the airport.  As I asked her a third time,

“Do you have your passport?” while telling myself NOT to ask her again, she very wisely handed me her passport so I could see it for myself…so perhaps she wasn’t the only anxious one.laurahongpc1All checked in and ready for security, we asked a random human to snap our happy photo…laurakongpc2…then hugged and then we both started crying, well except for My Loving Spouse who told everyone they didn’t ‘need’ to cry.  Dropping sons off for big life excursions is much easier…at least then, there was only one of us crying.  Thank goodness for texting… 2015-01-25 18.37.09

…and she is off…the nest feels weird and this Mother Bird is very, very tired.

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Library Times

librarypc1I get to work with kids and books.  How great is that?!!!  My Librarian and I are a unique team…both of us wanting to go to the same place (get books into kids hands) and yet our skills are so completely different.  My Librarian is really my ‘boss’, but she treats me like ‘we’ are a team, which we are.  Our library is an exciting, fun and sometimes quirky place to be.  Let me tell you a little secret about being ‘older’ working with kids…I get to be a little bit of a smart-aleck and finally get away with it.

I talk to every child that comes in the library.  I check books out to them, remind them gently about books they need to return, tell them to tie their shoes and sometimes provide special wipes for them to clean their glasses.  I get them to speak to me and look me in the eye..and I don’t let other kids interrupt when it is their turn….it is a little bit like cotillion lessons without the dancing.  We’ve found that more books are returned AND more books are checked out when we run the library this way.  What I tell the kids…

“Remember…everyone checks out with me…because we don’t want the old person to get lonely!”

My desk and work area are clearly separate from the shelves.  Sometimes there are books waiting to be re-shelved (fancy library word) on a cart behind my chair.  The bigger kids can see these books and even check them out, however first they have to go through ‘The Crazy Assistant Librarian’s Protocol’ for stepping beyond my desk.

“Miss Ellen, may I enter the realm?”

‘Yes, you may enter the realm.’

My job?  Yep, I LOVE it!

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